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  Sex Positions

  The Ultimate Guide for Exploding Couple’s Sex Life with The Top Sex Positions

  ~ Bambi Colt

  Copyright  2018 by Bambi Colt

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  Illustrations  Olivia Harlan

  Cover design by Angie Gerard

  ISBN- Print 978-197408535

  eBook- Print 978-1974085354

  Table of Contents

  Introduction

  Chapter 1: Intimacy

  Chapter 2: Romance

  Chapter 3: Different Types of Positions

  Chapter 4: Sensual Positions

  Chapter 5: Spicy Positions

  Chapter 6: Beyond the Bedroom

  Conclusion

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  Sex Positions: The Ultimate Guide for Exploding Couple’s Sex Life with The Top Sex Positions

  Introduction

  “Sex Positions: The Ultimate Guide for Exploding Couple's Sex Life with The Top Sex Positions" is a book designed to help you bring romance back into your relationship. Unlike Kama Sutra-style books, this book is going to emphasize on actions and positions that can easily be completed by anyone, regardless of your flexibility or mobility. The idea is to bring romance back into the everyday relationship, allowing you to obtain greater enjoyment and fulfillment from your relationship with your partner.

  At one time or another, you likely had a fiery sex life with your partner, but over time it slowly dwindles as relationships settle in and people become comfortable with one another. Alternatively, you may be fresh in a relationship and are seeking out advice on how to have a strong sex life from the get go. Regardless of where you are in experience and in life, this book can help you experience great joy in your sex life.

  If you are ready to level up your experience and add fiery passion and romance to your relationship, then you have come to the right place. This book will provide you with excellent advice for both inside and outside of the bedroom, as well as some awesome new sex positions for you to try. Altogether, you will have everything you need to spark fierce and romantic passion in your relationship once again.

  I apologize for not being able to put the image itself inside the book due to Amazon's restriction but I've put the image link to each Sex Position. Please click the link below each position and you’ll be able to see the exact Sex Position. Or, you can go with the paperback version to see each image inside the book.

  Chapter 1: Intimacy

  In relationships, intimacy may come naturally, or it may take effort. Regardless of whether it's one way or the other is unimportant, the important part is that you realize the value of intimacy and what it adds to your relationship. By understanding the importance of intimacy, you can begin to take control over your relationship and ensure that your relationship flourishes with it.

  The Importance of Intimacy

  According to psychologists, a relationship that lacks intimacy will fail to thrive and will ultimately end up with two unhappy parties, likely separated, divorced, or otherwise split up. The importance of intimacy runs deep, as it is specifically the intimate connection between two people who are in love. You can have love without intimacy, but you cannot have a romantic relationship without intimacy. There may be periods where intimacy waxes and wanes, but overall the intimacy should always be present or in the very close background of a relationship. When the intimacy starts to die down, it is always a good idea to put in a little extra effort to bring it back up.

  Different Types of Intimacy

  You might be surprised, but there are different types of intimacy in relationships. The two primary types of intimacy are physical and emotional. Because of this, different partners are likely to see different types of intimacy as more important. You and your partner might have two different ideas of what intimacy should look like in your relationship, so it is important that you learn to communicate with these types of things.

  Physical intimacy is an intimacy that is shown through physical touch. People who are more interested in physical intimacy tend to feel more connected to their partner through touch. The touch can be non-sexual such as hand-holding, a hand on the shoulder, hugging, and even sitting next to each other with body parts touching. Or, it can be sexual. When you want to turn someone on who is more interested in physical intimacy, you need to use this to your advantage. Use sensual touching of various areas of the body as an opportunity to turn them on.

  Emotional intimacy is an intimacy that is given and received through feelings. People who are more interested in emotional intimacy are turned on through words and other things that evoke emotions. They may be more likely to respond to surprises, storytelling, gifts, and more.

  Most relationships rely on both types of intimacy, though the balance will be unique to each individual relationship. Finding the perfect balance will require communication and practice as you both learn how to physically and emotionally communicate with each other in a way that nurtures your relationship.

  Chapter 2: Romance

  Romance stems from intimacy, as it is ultimately an extension of the intimacy itself. When there is intimacy in a relationship, you can be certain that some level of romance will prevail. If you want to have a really exciting sex life, you will want to build a solid foundation of intimacy and frost it off with a healthy helping of romance. Regardless of what someone’s intimacy preference is, they will most certainly want to experience romance in their life. You can decide how you will display romance based on their preference for types of intimacy.

  For Physical People

  Anyone who likes physical intimacy will want to experience acts of romance in the physical sense. There are many ways that you can be romantic towards someone physically. When you are physically romantic, you want to do so with both sexual and non-sexual intentions. What that means is that while sometimes you are going to want to allow the romance to lead towards sex, you should not
always allow for it to go that far. When you use physical intimacy to result in sex every single time, it can actually break down the value of this type of intimacy as your partner will begin to predict that every time you display physical romance, you want sex. You always want to keep your partner on edge and guessing. You can do this by mixing it up and sometimes going all the way and other times holding back and letting the passion build for a few days until you allow it to evolve into sexual romance.

  Even if your partner likes physical romance, it doesn’t mean they will like all physical touches. They may prefer some over others. Again, communication is the key to finding out what your partner likes. However, these are great places to start:

  Sensual massages

  Caressing or stroking

  Hugging

  Holding hands

  Cuddling or holding

  Kissing the face

  Kissing the lips

  For Emotional People

  For anyone who likes emotional intimacy, they will prefer acts of romance that stir up emotions inside of them. While physical touch will be one aspect of this, there are much more. In fact, in most cases, one of the other methods will be more likely to stir up the romance than physical touching will. Again, you want to use your actions as an opportunity to romance your partner whether you want to have sex or not. Especially with emotional people, using acts of romance only to have sex can lead to a greater sense of hurt feelings and it can actually heavily damage the intimacy between you and your partner, thus destroying the romance. If you want to succeed, you need to be willing to be romantic without sexual intentions on a regular basis, as well as romantic with sexual intentions from time to time.

  If your partner likes emotional romance, you need to be certain that your romantic actions are always genuine. Those who are turned on by their emotions are often equally turned off by their emotions, and this can quickly destroy things in your relationship. Never commit an act of romance if it isn't genuinely coming from your heart. If you are, however, acting from your heart, the following ideas are a great place to start:

  Poetry

  Telling about how you feel

  Saying "I love you."

  Showing you care through words and actions

  Romantic gestures such as flowers or chocolate

  Remembering important things about them

  Looking into their eyes to establish emotional connection

  Stirring up the romance in your relationship is important if you want to have a strong sex life. Before you start focusing on new sex positions and how to spice up sex itself, you want to build a strong foundation. A relationship that is strong with intimacy and romance is one where sex will be uninhibited and much more enjoyable for both parties. It is important that you put in the groundwork to ensure that your relationship is strong outside of sex if you want to have mind blowing sex that is incredible every single time.

  Chapter 3: Different Types of Positions

  There are two main types of sexual positions that the average couple uses in the bedroom. While other sex position books like Kama Sutras and similar texts will give you several types of positions, the various others are most often positions that are not easily accomplished by the average person. In other words, they are virtually useless to everyday couples who just want to have sex and don't want to have to learn different foot positioning's and balancing acts just to have it.

  The two types of sex enjoyed by average couples include: sensual sex and spicy sex. Sensual sex is a more emotional experience, whereas spicy sex is a more physical experience. Despite each of them speaking to a unique, intimate preference, most individuals enjoy a mixture of both. Communicating with your partner to find out what they are comfortable with is the best way to ensure that you both enjoy the experience and that it brings you two closer together in the long run.

  Sensual Sex

  Sensual sex is typically a more emotional sexual experience. It is a love-making style of sex that invokes various emotions to help bring the two lovers closer together. It is as much emotional as it is physical. On a physical level, different sexual areas are being stimulated in a gentle manner that can bring each party to climax in a gentle sense. A large part of what brings about the climax, however, is the emotional addition. In sensual sex, there is a heightened sense of emotions that come into action.

  The best way to heighten the experience of sensual sex is to include eye contact and use kinder and more romantic dirty talking. This is often where you will find couples saying “I love you” during sex. It is most often a slower experience that allows each moment to be enjoyed more thoroughly. As you may have expected, this type is most often favored by those who prefer emotional intimacy. Still, even those who prefer physical intimacy will enjoy the pleasures of sensual sex as well. For some who are extremely physical, however, too much sensual sex may not be stimulating enough and therefore not enjoyable on a regular basis.

  Spicy Sex

  Spicy sex is a more physical experience, and it can be anything from dirtier language and quicker movements to more physical actions such as spanking and clawing. There is no right or wrong way to have spicy sex with your partner. For those who prefer physical intimacy, they are more likely to feel connected to their partner through physical sex. While those who don't understand it may believe it to be rude or mean, those who prefer it find that it heightens the intimacy and romance between partners because it relies on trust and intuitively knowing each other's boundaries and preferences. In fact, because of this element of trust and intuitive knowing, many emotional romantics also have a unique passion for spicy sex, as well.

  The best way to heighten the experience of spicy sex is to go with the flow. Do more of what your partner likes and less thinking overall. You should seek as many ways to be physical with your partner as possible. You can be physical through the act of thrusting, as well as with your hands and, if you’re creative enough, other body parts as well. Again, how far your partner likes to take it will be unique to them so always be sure to communicate and never go further than they like. If you do, you risk destroying the intimacy and romance between you and your partner, as well as trust and other important bonds.

  Gender Preferences

  When you are having sex with your partner, it is important that you never assume what they prefer based on their gender. Many men prefer sensual, sexual experiences and many females prefer physical. While it was often believed that men are more physical and female are more sensual, it has been found that preferences are individual and not gender-based. If you want to ensure that you and your partner both have mind-blowing experiences, you will want to communicate to learn what your partner prefers. Remember, despite their intimate and romantic preferences, they may prefer a style of sex that is different or unique to them. Learning this information gives you the best opportunity to ensure that they have a wonderful experience in the bedroom with you.

  Chapter 4: Sensual Positions

  Sensual positions are extremely emotional and generally come from a more loving place in the heart. Emotional romantics tend to love sensual positions as they allow them to get physical stimulation as well as emotional stimulation which heightens the experience and makes it even easier for them to have a mind-blowing orgasm. If your partner is an emotional romantic, you will want to include sensual sex in your experience. Remember, not every experience needs to be sensual and not every experience needs to be only sensual. It is perfectly okay and even normal to mix it up.

  Many people feel as though sensual sex is only the missionary position, but this is not true. There are actually many different positions that can be sensual for you and your partner to enjoy together. While missionary is one of them, there are many others you can consider. The following 20 positions will add a sensual element to your sexual experience.

  The Rocking Horse

  This position is an elaborated version of the missionary style. It is a female-on-top position that allows the female partner to h
ave near total control over the movements. This position allows both partners to lovingly gaze at each other or cuddle each other as they make love. Because of the set-up of the position, the man can also take over and have control over the movements as well. Please click the link below to see the Rocking Horse Position.

  https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6yHTb9eIhLmNEVjOVhCRVJOY0E/view?usp=sharing

  Him: Put your arms out behind you and lean back on them as you sit up. Your legs can either be straight out in front of you, knees up, or crossed. If you are controlling the movement, you may want to have your knees bent for leverage, but otherwise sit however feels comfortable for you.

  Her: Sit on top of your man with a leg on either side of his hips. You should be on your knees, using your shins as leverage to help you with movements. However, you can sit in any way that feels comfortable to you and your partner. From this position, you can cradle your man's head, look into his eyes, or even put his face on your chest if that feels comfortable.

  The Slide

  This is another girl-on-top position, but both partners are able to have more control over the movements in this one. Still, because of the position, the female will have slightly more control than the male when it comes to thrusting. This position is very close to missionary but has a slight twist on it which makes it have a unique feeling.

  Him: You want to lie on your back with your legs out straight. Once your partner is on top of you, you can use your hands to caress her back or bum, or you can even hold her face and kiss her as she rides you.